Moving Your Husband In: A Sim’s Guide to Domestic Bliss
So, you’ve found the Sim of your dreams, put a ring on it, and now you’re wondering how to get him under your Sim roof? Don’t worry, it’s a common question! Moving your Sim husband into your household in The Sims 4 is typically a straightforward process. The most common method is to use the “Ask To Move In” social interaction. Have your active Sim (the one you’re playing) interact with their husband. Under the “Friendly” or “Romance” interaction options, you should find the “Ask To Move In” option. Since they’re married, he’s almost guaranteed to accept, and you’ll be presented with a screen to manage belongings and funds.
Let’s dive into the process step-by-step, and explore some other related questions.
A Step-by-Step Guide to Cohabitation
Step 1: Building the Relationship
Before you can even think about moving in, ensure your Sims have a strong relationship. Marriage implies this is already done, but for the “Ask to Move In” interaction to appear, both Sims need to have a reasonably high relationship level. Regularly interact with your partner, engage in friendly conversations, share meals, and generally nurture the bond between them.
Step 2: Initiating the “Ask To Move In” Interaction
This is where the magic happens. Control the Sim you want to keep in your household. Click on your husband Sim. This will open the interaction menu. Look for options under the “Friendly” or “Romance” categories. The “Ask To Move In” interaction should be there. If it’s not immediately visible, keep interacting and selecting options that increase relationship values.
Step 3: Accepting the Proposal
Since your Sims are married, the acceptance is almost guaranteed. The game will then present you with a crucial screen where you can manage the transfer of belongings and funds.
Step 4: Managing Assets and Funds
This screen allows you to decide how the household funds and belongings will be combined. You can choose to keep the funds separate, merge them, or transfer a portion of the funds. Similarly, you can decide which furniture and items from the husband’s inventory will be brought into the household. Make your choices carefully as these decisions will impact your household’s finances and living conditions.
Step 5: Enjoying Domestic Life
Congratulations! Your Sim husband is now a resident of your household. Get ready for the joys (and occasional challenges) of Sim domestic life.
FAQs: Clearing Up Common Questions About Moving Sims
Here are 15 frequently asked questions about moving Sims, covering everything from troubleshooting to advanced techniques:
1. What if the “Ask To Move In” option doesn’t appear?
Ensure your Sims have a high enough relationship level. Focus on friendly and romantic interactions. Also, make sure the Sim you’re asking isn’t already part of another active household, such as his mother who will not move in due to being another active household.
2. Can I move a Sim in if they are already living with roommates?
Yes, but the roommates will not come along for the ride. The roommates will remain at their existing residence. Only the Sim you invite to move in will join your household.
3. How do I move in a Sim using cheats?
Enable cheats by pressing Ctrl + Shift + C and typing “testingcheats on”. Then, Shift-click on the Sim you want to add to your household and select “Add to Family.” Be aware that using cheats might disable achievements.
4. Can married Sims live separately in The Sims 4?
Yes! Married Sims can live separately. The game allows for non-traditional family dynamics. You can even have children while living apart.
5. What if I want to move my Sim to their house instead?
In Manage Worlds, select the target household (the husband’s house). Click the “…” (More) option, then “Move Household.” You can then choose your active household to move into their residence.
6. How do I move a Sim out of my household?
Use the phone or computer and select “Move Household.” You can then move the unwanted Sim into another existing household or create a new one for them.
7. My Sim is stuck and won’t move! What do I do?
Use the cheat “resetSim Firstname Lastname” (e.g., resetSim Bella Goth). This will reset the Sim and usually resolve the issue.
8. Can I move a Sim into a house for free?
Yes! After enabling “testingcheats on”, type “freerealestate on”. This allows your Sims to move into any house, regardless of their funds.
9. Why can’t I transfer Sims between households in Manage Worlds?
You might have reached the maximum Sim count in Manage Households. Try moving some unplayed Sims into the “Other Households” category.
10. What happens if I divorce a Sim?
Divorced Sims will no longer be married, but they can still live in the same house (awkward!). Their relationship will decrease, and you’ll need to rebuild it if you want them to reconcile.
11. How do I merge two households?
In Manage Worlds, select one of the households. Choose the “Move Household” option, then select an occupied lot with the other household you want to merge with. You will be asked if you want to merge the two households.
12. Can I have multiple spouses in The Sims 4?
Without mods, The Sims 4 doesn’t natively support polygamy. Your Sim can only be married to one Sim at a time. However, they can have multiple romantic partners.
13. How do I move an entire family at once?
Select any Sim in the family, open their cell phone, and choose the “Move Household” option. This will move the entire household to a new lot.
14. How do I split up a household?
In Manage Worlds, select the household you want to split. Click the “…” (More) option and choose “Manage Household”. From there, you can transfer Sims to new or existing households.
15. Why is my Sim not moving, even with cheats?
Ensure you’ve entered the cheat correctly (double-check the spelling). If the Sim is still stuck, try resetting the lot by entering build mode, demolishing the lot, and then rebuilding it. If the problem persists, it may be a bug, and you might need to repair your game files.
Beyond the Basics: Advanced Sim Relocation
Now that you understand the fundamentals of moving Sims, let’s explore some more advanced techniques and considerations.
The Role of Aspiration and Traits
A Sim’s aspiration and traits can influence their willingness to move or their satisfaction with their living situation. For example, a Sim with the “Loves Outdoors” trait might be unhappy living in a small, cramped apartment. Consider these factors when choosing a home for your Sims.
Neighborhood Preferences
Each neighborhood in The Sims 4 has its own unique vibe and amenities. Some neighborhoods are more family-friendly, while others are better suited for singles or young adults. Research the different neighborhoods and choose one that aligns with your Sims’ lifestyles and aspirations.
Building and Customization
Don’t be afraid to customize your home to perfectly suit your Sims’ needs and preferences. Use build mode to add new rooms, renovate existing spaces, and decorate with furniture and objects that reflect their personalities.
Modding for Enhanced Control
For players who want even more control over Sim relocation, mods can provide advanced features and options. Mods can allow for polygamous relationships, custom move-in interactions, and more detailed control over household finances. As always, be cautious when downloading and installing mods, and ensure they are compatible with your game version.
Continuing Your Sim Education
The world of The Sims 4 is constantly evolving, with new updates, expansions, and game packs adding even more depth and complexity to the gameplay experience. Staying up-to-date with the latest features and strategies is essential for mastering the game. One great resource for this is the Games Learning Society, a group dedicated to educational insights in gaming. Visit them at GamesLearningSociety.org.
Conclusion
Moving your Sim husband into your household is usually a simple task, but understanding the underlying mechanics and troubleshooting potential issues can make the process even smoother. By following the steps outlined in this guide and exploring the advanced techniques discussed, you can create the perfect home for your Sims and enjoy the joys of virtual domestic life. Happy Simming!