How To Say “Goodbye” to Romance in The Sims 4: A Comprehensive Guide

So, your Sims have fallen out of love, or maybe you just want to rewrite their relationship status? Removing a romantic relationship in The Sims 4 can be achieved in several ways, ranging from in-game actions to using cheat codes and mods. The most straightforward method is often to utilize in-game interactions to reduce relationship points until the romantic link disappears. However, for a quicker and more precise approach, you can leverage cheats or mods to manipulate relationships. Another approach is to move Sims out of their current household and back again. Let’s explore these methods in more detail.

Methods for Breaking Up in The Sims 4

The Slow and Steady Method: Negative Interactions

The most organic, if time-consuming, way to remove romantic feelings is through negative interactions. Constant arguing, being mean, and generally annoying each other will steadily diminish their relationship level. Here’s how:

• Initiate Conflicts: Select mean or mischievous interactions. Try “Argue”, “Insult”, or “Be Rude.”
• Neglect the Relationship: Avoid romantic interactions altogether. Don’t flirt, hug, or even speak nicely to them.
• Keep it Consistent: Consistency is key. Repeated negative actions will erode the romance faster.
• Monitor the Relationship Bar: Keep an eye on the relationship bar; once it goes into the “acquaintance” or “friend” range, the romantic status will vanish.

This method requires patience, but it does provide a realistic experience of relationships breaking down. Once the romantic relationship has ended, you can build the friendship back up if desired.

The Quick Fix: Cheats and Commands

If you’re short on time or want more control, cheats provide a more direct route to ending romantic relationships. The key is the modifyrelationship cheat.

1. Open the Cheat Console: Press Ctrl + Shift + C (or Command + Shift + C on Mac).

2. Type testingcheats true and press Enter.

3. Use the modifyrelationship command: The basic format is:
   modifyrelationship [YourSimFirstName] [YourSimLastName] [TargetSimFirstName] [TargetSimLastName] [Amount] [LTR_Romance_Main]

   • Replace [YourSimFirstName] and [YourSimLastName] with the first and last name of your active Sim.
   • Replace [TargetSimFirstName] and [TargetSimLastName] with the first and last name of the Sim they’re romantically involved with.
   • [Amount] is how much you want to change the relationship. Negative numbers decrease it, and positive numbers increase it. Use a large negative number (e.g., -100) to dramatically decrease a romance bar.
   • LTR_Romance_Main is the specific relationship type you’re targeting for modification.

4. Example: modifyrelationship Bella Goth Mortimer Goth -100 LTR_Romance_Main
   This cheat will remove 100 relationship points from the romantic relationship between Bella and Mortimer Goth.

Important Note: You might need to use this cheat multiple times to completely remove the romantic status, especially if the relationship level is high.

Mod Power: MC Command Center

For players who prefer a modded experience, the MC Command Center (MCCC) is a powerful tool. It provides a much more user-friendly interface for managing relationships, among other things.

1. Download and Install MCCC: Find a reputable source for the MC Command Center mod, such as Deaderpool’s Patreon and follow the installation instructions.
2. Click on the Sim: Select the Sim whose relationship you want to change.
3. Use MCCC: Click the Sim and select MC Command Center.
4. Navigate to Relationships: Select Relationships and then Delete Relationship.
5. Choose the Target: Select the Sim to remove the romantic relationship with.

The MCCC mod also allows more specific relationship modifications, making it a versatile option for players seeking more granular control.

The Library Shuffle: A Household Trick

A less conventional method involves moving Sims in and out of the library. This process can wipe out relationships, effectively resetting them.

1. Separate the Sims: Ensure the Sims you want to break apart are living in different households.
2. Save to Library: Save each of those households separately into your library.
3. Delete From World: Delete the households from your game world (Manage Worlds).
4. Place Back: Reintroduce those households into the game. Place them where you choose.

This technique clears the memory of the relationship connections from the game database, which forces the game to treat them as new Sims.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) About Romance & Relationships in The Sims 4

Here are some common questions players have about romantic relationships in The Sims 4 and how to change them:

1. Can I edit relationships in Sims 4 after creation?

Yes, you can edit relationships after creation. As detailed above, you can use the in-game interaction method, cheats like modifyrelationship, the MC Command Center mod, or the “library shuffle” technique. Without these methods, relationship changes cannot be made outside of direct in-game interactions.

2. Why can’t I edit relationships in Sims 4 using the standard CAS?

The standard Create-A-Sim (CAS) interface only allows you to set initial relationships. Once the game starts, you can’t edit them directly within CAS without the use of the cas.fulleditmode cheat and the specific modifications enabled by the cheat.

3. What is the modifyrelationship cheat on Sims 4 and how does it work?

The modifyrelationship cheat, as described earlier, allows you to directly adjust relationship levels between two Sims. It manipulates the numerical value of the relationship using the specific string LTR_Romance_Main for romantic relationships and an amount.

4. Can I end my sim’s pregnancy?

Without mods, there is no direct way to end a pregnancy in The Sims 4. You can try reverting to a previous save or, regrettably, ignore the baby until Child Protective Services takes it away. Mods, however, do offer the option of ending a pregnancy.

5. How do you undo marriage in Sims 4?

To undo marriage, you must divorce the Sims. This can be done by selecting the “Divorce” interaction. Keep in mind that this will result in sad moodlets for the Sims. To truly erase the marriage connection completely, you may need to utilize the Library Shuffle method, cheats, or a mod such as MCCC.

6. Can you have a girlfriend and husband in Sims 4?

Yes, Sims can have multiple boyfriends or girlfriends even while married. The game allows for multiple romantic partners, but you can only have one spouse or fiancé at a time. The Sims will only get jealous of romantic interactions if those interactions occur while the involved Sims are on the same lot.

7. Why do sims reject romantic advances?

Several factors can lead to romantic rejection. Negative moodlets, conflicting traits, and existing negative relationships will reduce the success of romantic interactions. The “amorous exchange” at the top of the screen is a helpful indicator of the mood and interaction type.

8. How many romantic partners can you have in sims 4?

Sims can have as many boyfriends and girlfriends as they want. However, they can only be married to or engaged to one Sim at a time.

9. Can your partner cheat on you in Sims 4?

Yes, Sims can cheat on their partners and will have interactions to confess. There’s also a chance an accusation might occur when they meet again after being away from one another.

10. Do Sims get jealous of WooHoo partners?

Sims get jealous if their WooHoo partner is romantic with another Sim while present, if they have a positive friendship level.

11. Can you have polygamy in The Sims?

Technically not at once, a sim can only be engaged to one person at a time. You must marry them one after the other, if desired.

12. Can I change relationships in Sims Mobile?

Yes, in Sims Mobile, you can change relationship types, but not through changing a Relationship Story. The focus is on building relationships rather than changing existing ones through external methods.

13. Can you marry your roommate on Sims Mobile?

Yes, you can marry your roommate in Sims Mobile. The game allows for all types of relationships to be pursued.

14. Is there a cheat to edit pre-existing Sims?

Yes, use the command cas.fulleditmode in the cheat console, then shift-click on the Sim and select “Edit in CAS”. This allows you to modify pre-existing sims within CAS, but will not allow you to modify pre-existing relationships.

15. Why are my Sims rejecting each other?

Mood and conflicting traits can impact romantic success. Make sure that the Sims are in a good mood and also avoid trying for romance when one Sim has just received a negative moodlet from a previous failed romantic interaction.

By understanding these methods and FAQs, you can effectively manage relationships in The Sims 4 and shape your Sims’ lives according to your preferences. Whether you prefer slow, natural breakups or swift, decisive action, the game offers plenty of tools to get the job done.