What is a Non-Binary Lord Called? Exploring Gender-Neutral Titles in Nobility

In the evolving landscape of gender identity and inclusivity, traditional titles and forms of address are being re-examined. The question of what to call a non-binary lord highlights this shift. There isn’t one single, universally accepted answer. Language is a living thing, and the best term to use depends on individual preference and the specific context. However, several options and approaches have emerged:

• Liege: This term is increasingly popular as a gender-neutral alternative to “Lord” or “Lady.” It emphasizes the feudal relationship of loyalty and service without specifying gender. Some might find “Liege” a respectful and empowering title.

• Sovereign: This is another option, emphasizing their ruling power and authority, similar to how “Monarch” is used for non-binary rulers.

• Suzerain: If the person holds feudal authority over others, Suzerain is a gender neutral option.

• Using the Given Name and Title: Some non-binary individuals may prefer to simply use their given name in conjunction with the title, for example, “Mx. Alex.” This approach respects their personal identity while acknowledging their noble status.

• Creating New Titles: In some circles, there’s a move towards creating entirely new, gender-neutral titles that aren’t derived from existing gendered terms. This is a more radical approach but allows for complete freedom in defining the title’s meaning and connotations.

Ultimately, the most respectful approach is to ask the individual what title they prefer. Language evolves through usage and acceptance, and the best way to ensure inclusivity is to respect personal preferences.

FAQs: Navigating Gender-Neutral Titles and Nobility

This section answers related questions to give you a more complete understanding of this subject:

Addressing Royalty and Nobility

1. What do you call a non-binary royalty?

Common gender neutral names for royalty are Monarch, Ruler, Sovereign. Caln is an option for monarch based on the Q/K sound of queen and king. Other less common options are Prin, prinxe, princet, princette, princev, princen, princus which are based on the prince/ss ending.

2. What is the non-binary version of Prince/Princess?

“Princex” and “Princen” are two neologisms created to serve as gender-neutral versions of prince/princess.

3. What is the female version of Lord?

Lady is the traditional female equivalent of Lord.

4. Is the title “Lord” gender-neutral?

While traditionally associated with men, the use of “Lord” is becoming more flexible. Examples like the Lord of Mann (a title held by a woman) demonstrate that the title is not exclusively male. However, it’s still primarily considered a gendered term.

5. What are some non-binary terms for marriage partners?

Instead of “husband” or “wife,” use “partner,” “spouse,” or “marrier”. The latter is particularly useful when referring to someone getting married.

Parenting and Family

6. If a non-binary person has a child, what would their child call them?

There are many options! Some popular choices include:

• Baba
• Zaza: Derived from “Dada” and “Mama” with a gender-neutral “z.”
• Mada: A portmanteau of “Mama” and “Dada.”
• Cenn: Short for “Cennend,” an Anglo-Saxon word for parent.
• Nibi: Derived from N.B. for Non-Binary.

The best approach is to choose a term that feels comfortable and natural for both the parent and child.

7. What is the non-binary equivalent of Mr./Mrs./Ms.?

Mx. (pronounced “mux” or “mix”) is a gender-neutral title used for people who do not identify with traditional gendered titles.

Historical and Cultural Context

8. Was Elizabeth I non-binary?

While there’s no definitive historical evidence that Elizabeth I identified as non-binary, some contemporary interpretations have explored this possibility, referring to the monarch with they/them pronouns.

9. Where did non-binary pronouns come from?

The use of singular “they” dates back to the 14th century, demonstrating that it isn’t a recent invention.

Titles, Ranking and Society

10. What is higher in rank: Lord or Sir?

Lord is generally considered a higher rank than Sir. “Sir” is used to address a baronet or knight, while “Lord” refers to higher nobles.

11. Are Lords royalty?

Lords are not technically royalty but hold a title of nobility, sometimes considered a courtesy title.

12. What are the different types of Lords?

The different types of Lords, in descending order of rank, are: dukes, marquesses, earls, viscounts, and barons.

13. Is a Dame higher than a Lady?

Dame is a title of respect equivalent to Lady. It’s used for the wife or widow of a baronet or knight, or for a woman appointed to the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire.

14. Why is someone called a Lord?

A Lord is someone who holds a title of nobility, often a feudal superior or a peer of the realm.

15. Does gender identity play a part in how we learn?

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In conclusion, finding the right gender-neutral title for a lord involves understanding personal preferences, respecting historical context, and embracing evolving language. The key is to prioritize inclusivity and communication.