How to Teleport to Your Wife in Skyrim: A Comprehensive Guide

So, you’ve tied the knot in Skyrim and now your spouse is nowhere to be found? Don’t panic! While the Dragonborn is capable of felling dragons and reshaping the world, navigating the intricacies of marital bliss in a video game can sometimes be even more challenging. This guide will walk you through how to teleport to your wife (or husband) in Skyrim, ensuring you’re reunited in no time.

The most reliable method to teleport to your spouse in Skyrim requires using the game’s console commands. This is only available on the PC version of the game. Here’s how it works:

1. Open the console: Press the tilde key (`) on your keyboard. This key is usually located to the left of the number 1 key.

2. Identify your spouse’s RefID: Each NPC in Skyrim has a unique Reference ID (RefID). You’ll need to know your spouse’s RefID to teleport to them. Fortunately, a bit of research online (using the Elder Scrolls wiki) can help.

   • If your wife is Camilla Valerius, for example, open the console and type: player.moveto 00013274 and press Enter.
   • If your wife is Aela the Huntress, for example, open the console and type: player.moveto 0001A696 and press Enter.

3. Teleport to your spouse: Type the command player.moveto [RefID] (replace [RefID] with the actual RefID of your spouse) into the console and press Enter. For example, if your wife is Lydia, you’d type: player.moveto 000A2C94 and press Enter.

4. Close the console: Press the tilde key (`) again to close the console. You should now be teleported to your spouse’s current location, provided they are still alive.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) About Finding Your Skyrim Spouse

How do I find my lost wife in Skyrim if I don’t use console commands?

If you’re playing on a console or simply prefer not to use console commands, there are a few things you can try:

• Check their default location: After marriage, your spouse will typically move to the house you designated as your primary residence. If you don’t own a house, they’ll often return to their original location. For example, Camilla Valerius goes back to the Riverwood Trader.
• Wait for a few days: Sometimes, NPCs can get stuck or take a while to travel. Try waiting in-game for a few days (using the “T” key) to see if your spouse eventually shows up.
• Retrace your steps: Think about where you last saw your spouse and revisit those locations. They might be stuck somewhere along the way.

What if my spouse is dead? Can I still teleport to their body?

Yes, even if your spouse is dead, you can use the player.moveto [RefID] command to teleport to their body. However, be warned that you might find yourself in a strange cell within the game if that spouse is dead.

How do I revive my dead spouse in Skyrim?

Only PC players can use console commands to revive NPCs. If your spouse is dead, open the console, click on their body (this will display their RefID), and then type resurrect and press Enter. This will bring them back to life, although their inventory might be reset.

My spouse isn’t at their default location. Where else could they be?

Spouses can sometimes get stuck in dungeons, accidentally wander into dangerous areas, or simply get lost. They might also be at a location related to a quest they’re involved in. If you’ve exhausted other options, try retracing any quests you’ve done together.

Can I have multiple spouses in Skyrim?

No, Skyrim only allows you to marry one NPC at a time. If you want to marry someone else, you’ll need to divorce your current spouse. In order to divorce your spouse, you will need to kill them.

How do I divorce my spouse in Skyrim?

There is no conventional divorce mechanic in Skyrim. The only way to effectively “divorce” your spouse is to have them die, either by your hand or by allowing them to perish in combat. Note that killing your spouse can have consequences, such as incurring a bounty.

What are the benefits of having a spouse in Skyrim?

Having a spouse in Skyrim provides several benefits:

• Shared Living: They’ll move into your house and can cook you a daily meal that provides a temporary stat boost.
• Shopkeeping: They can run a shop, generating a small amount of income each day.
• Companionship: They can act as a follower, assisting you in combat and carrying your burdens.
• Roleplaying: Having a spouse adds depth and realism to your character’s story.

Can my spouse die permanently?

Yes, unless you take steps to protect them (such as equipping them with powerful armor and weapons), your spouse can die permanently in combat. It is recommended that you take good care of your spouse.

What happens if my spouse dies?

If your spouse dies, you’ll receive a letter of inheritance from a courier, containing a small amount of gold. You will no longer be able to access any of the benefits they provided, such as running a shop or providing daily meals.

Are there any mods that make it easier to find my spouse?

Yes, several mods can help you track down your spouse or prevent them from getting lost. Some popular options include:

• Spouses Can Live Everywhere: Allows your spouse to live in any player-owned home.
• Relationship Dialogue Overhaul: Improves dialogue options with your spouse and other NPCs.
• Convenient Horses: Makes horse travel easier and ensures your followers stay close.

My spouse is always complaining. How do I make them happier?

To keep your spouse happy, make sure you visit them regularly, bring them gifts, and avoid doing things that might upset them (such as committing crimes in their presence).

Can my spouse be a follower?

Yes, most spouses can also be recruited as followers. This allows them to accompany you on your adventures and assist you in combat.

Where does Lydia go when she gets tired of waiting?

If you tell Lydia to wait and then leave her for too long, she will return to her default location. If you own Breezehome in Whiterun, that will be her default location. Otherwise, she will return to Dragonsreach.

How do I teleport my follower to me in Skyrim?

The process is nearly identical to teleporting to your spouse. Open the console, identify your follower’s RefID, and then type player.moveto [RefID] and press Enter.

How can the skills learned in Skyrim transfer to the real world?

The problem-solving, resource management, and strategic thinking skills honed in Skyrim are surprisingly transferable. Understanding how to navigate complex systems, make decisions under pressure, and learn from mistakes can benefit players in various aspects of their lives. The Games Learning Society explores these connections and how games can be used for education and development. Visit GamesLearningSociety.org to learn more.

Hopefully, this guide has helped you reunite with your spouse in Skyrim. Remember to take care of them and enjoy the adventures you share together!