Untangling the Branches: How to Remove Family Relationships in The Sims 4
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So, you’re looking to rewrite some familial destinies in The Sims 4? Maybe you want to free a Sim from unwanted relatives, or perhaps you’re aiming for a storyline that dances on the edge of propriety. Whatever your reason, disconnecting family ties is surprisingly achievable. Here’s the straight answer:
The primary methods for severing those Sim-related bonds involve using cheats, the MC Command Center (MCCC) mod, or exploiting a quirk in the game’s system of saving and importing households.
Methods for Removing Family Relationships
Let’s delve into the specifics of each approach:
1. The Mighty MC Command Center (MCCC)
MCCC is a powerhouse mod that grants you unparalleled control over your Sims 4 experience. It is a MUST have for any serious Simmer. Here’s how to wield its power to dismantle family trees:
- Acquire MCCC: First, you’ll need to download and install the MC Command Center mod from a reliable source like Deaderpool’s website. Make sure it’s compatible with your current version of The Sims 4.
- In-Game Access: Once installed, click on a Sim. This should bring up a menu.
- Navigate to Relationship Settings: Look for the “MC Command Center” option, and then navigate to “Relationships”.
- Erase the Bond: Select “Delete Relationship”. A dialog box will appear, displaying all the Sims with whom the selected Sim has a relationship.
- Choose Your Target: Click on the picture of the Sim whose relationship you want to erase. Poof! The connection is gone.
MCCC provides the most direct and user-friendly way to eliminate specific relationships.
2. Cheats: The God Mode of The Sims 4
Cheats are your vanilla, in-game tools for bending the rules. However, they don’t directly sever family ties; instead, they pave the way for CAS (Create-a-Sim) editing to do the job, or they require more indirect approaches.
- Enable Cheats: Press Ctrl + Shift + C to open the cheat console. Type “testingcheats true” and press Enter. This unlocks the full range of cheat commands.
- Full Edit Mode in CAS: Type “cas.fulleditmode” and press Enter. This allows you to edit almost anything in CAS.
- Edit in CAS (Indirect Approach): Now, Shift-click on a Sim and choose “Modify in CAS”. This will open the Sim in Create-a-Sim. You can then attempt to change age, sex, or even appearance. Save and exit. Often, if two sims already have a relationship, the family tie boxes will be grayed out.
- Workaround: You can’t use CAS to edit the “family” relationship between two sims if they already have a relationship. You must delete the existing relationship and those options will no longer be greyed out. Then follow the above instructions to remove the relationship in CAS.
- Using a Cheat: Another way to add or change a family relationship is to select a Sim other than the currently active one and opening the cheat interaction menu. From there, players can select the desired family dynamic to apply to the relationship between the two Sims.
3. The Library Loophole: Re-importing Your Household
This method is a bit convoluted, but it exploits how The Sims 4 handles household data.
- Save the Household: Save your current household to the library.
- Manage Households: Go to “Manage Households”.
- Import from Library: Import the family you just saved from your library. This creates a duplicate.
- Relationship Reset: The newly imported Sims will have their relationships reset to a base level. This should allow you to edit family relationships in CAS more freely (though it may not entirely remove them).
Important Note: This method can be buggy and might not always work as expected. It’s also important to understand that this essentially creates new Sims, which might impact your game in unforeseen ways.
4. Aspiration Points
Difficult dynamics will add some drama to your family gameplay, but if you ever want your Sims to mend their relationship, you can make it easier by removing the dynamic either using aspiration points to buy the Dynamics Remover Potion in the rewards store.
Preventing Accidental Incestuous Relations
The Sims 4 recently rolled out an update that gave Sims unintentional incestual urges. One user took to Reddit to announce that their Sim had asked their own son to be their boyfriend. Yikes. Thankfully, the whole horrifying debacle is over. It is crucial that you keep your Sims 4 updated.
Final Considerations
Before you start severing family ties, remember these points:
- Backups are Your Friend: Always back up your save file before making significant changes, especially when using mods or cheats.
- Consequences: Removing family relationships can have unintended consequences on your Sim’s emotions, aspirations, and storylines.
- Ethical Simming: Some players find certain relationship manipulations unethical. Consider your own moral compass before proceeding.
By understanding these methods, you can manipulate family relationships in The Sims 4, crafting the narratives and dramas you desire. Have fun rewriting your Sim’s destinies!
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
1. Why can’t I edit my Sims’ relationships?
You can’t edit relationships directly if two Sims already have an established connection. You’ll need to first delete the existing relationship (using MCCC, for example) before editing the family ties in CAS. Also, make sure you’ve enabled “cas.fulleditmode” cheat.
2. How do I check my Sim’s relationship status with another Sim?
Tap the Info Panel, which looks like a Sim Portrait. Then, tap Relationships. This displays all of the Sim’s relationships.
3. How can I fix a broken relationship after a breakup in The Sims 4?
Mending a broken heart can be tough! To repair a fractured relationship, focus on positive interactions. Use friendly interactions often, and consider the Romance Festival. Drinking the special cherry blossom tea can increase romantic chances. It is pretty much impossible that they will just keep fighting, you need a miracle. Have your sims be friends again before the romance festival then go together and drink the special cherry blossom tea together (this enhances chance of romance) then click on your ex and select the ” … “.
4. Can Sims marry their cousins in The Sims 4?
Officially, no. The game is designed to prevent marriages between first cousins. Only second cousins and beyond can get married. Cousins will only give you the friendly or confrontational options.
5. What does “unplayed household” mean in The Sims 4?
An “active household” is the one you’re currently controlling and playing. “Unplayed Sims” are those you have never played as and have not explicitly marked as “played” in the game’s options.
6. How do I change the active household in The Sims 4?
Go to “Manage Worlds”. Select the house you want to play. In the bottom left corner, click the twin house icon (a.k.a., “Change Active Household”) and select the household you want to control.
7. How do I reset a Sim if they are bugging out?
Use the resetSim cheat. Open the cheat console (Ctrl + Shift + C), type “testingcheats true”, then type “resetSim FirstName LastName” (replace with the Sim’s actual name). This will reset the Sim to a neutral state and move them to a random spot in the house.
8. Can Sims find out about cheating in The Sims 4?
Yes, but it’s not automatic. Your Sim needs to witness the cheating Sim being romantic with another Sim. Your Sim will automatically accuse the Sim of cheating and get angry.
9. Can married Sims have boyfriends or girlfriends in The Sims 4?
Absolutely. It takes some effort to build a relationship with a married Sim, but it’s entirely possible.
10. Why do Sims sometimes reject romantic advances?
Many factors can influence the success of romantic interactions, including mood, relationship level, traits, and previous interactions. Pay attention to the interaction bubbles at the top of the screen to see if the interaction is positive or negative.
11. Can Sims have more than one boyfriend or girlfriend simultaneously in The Sims 4?
Yes! One of the Lifetime Wishes (LTW) even involves having multiple boyfriends/girlfriends. However, jealousy can occur if they catch you being affectionate with another Sim.
12. How do I change my Sim’s romantic preferences?
You can change a Sim’s sexual orientation after creation by using the “Change Sim” interaction at a mirror or dresser. This opens CAS, where you can adjust preferences under the ellipsis menu beneath the gender selection.
13. What does “family dynamic” mean in The Sims 4?
Family dynamics refers to the patterns of interactions, roles, and relationships between family members. These dynamics can influence the emotional well-being and interactions between Sims.
14. How do I edit pre-existing Sims in The Sims 4?
To edit a Sim, first enable the cheat “cas.fulleditmode”. Then, Shift-click on the Sim and select “Edit in CAS”.
15. Is it possible to have a boyfriend and a husband at the same time in The Sims 4?
Yes, The Sims 4 allows for multiple romantic partners. You can have multiple partners at once and even get married sims to divorce their husband/wife to marry your sim.
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