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So, you’ve set your sights on the brooding God of Death in Hades? Excellent choice! Thanatos is a complex, fascinating character, and winning his affection is a rewarding journey. The core of flirting with Thanatos revolves around consistent gifting, demonstrating your prowess in battle, and making choices that resonate with his personality. Basically, show him you are a worthy being who can respect death and value their shared moments.

Here’s the breakdown:

Nectar and Ambrosia are Key: Start by offering Thanatos Nectar whenever you encounter him. After gifting him six Nectars, you’ll receive his Keepsake, the Pierced Butterfly. Equipping this Keepsake and successfully completing encounters while taking no damage will enhance your dodge chance in your runs, a testament to how well you learn death’s dance.
Embrace the Competition: One of the most direct ways to earn Thanatos’s favor is by outperforming him in encounters. When he appears in a chamber alongside you, aim to defeat more enemies than he does. Winning these little contests is a surefire way to impress him. Beating him after gifting him his 6th Nectar will advance your relationship.
Ambrosia and the Bond: After giving Thanatos six Nectars and deepening your bond by competing with him, he’ll eventually become ready to accept Ambrosia. You’ll need to max out his affinity level by continuing to gift him Ambrosia. Four Ambrosia later, you’ll be given the opportunity to turn your relationship romantic, or keep things as they are, just like with Megaera. This unlocks a special scene in Zagreus’ bedroom. Choose wisely!
Dialogue is Crucial: Pay attention to Thanatos’s dialogue. He appreciates honesty, loyalty, and a respect for the natural order (death and all). Don’t be afraid to engage him in conversation and show genuine interest in his perspective.
Remember, it’s a Marathon, Not a Sprint: Building a relationship with Thanatos takes time and persistence. Don’t get discouraged if things don’t progress immediately. Keep gifting him Nectar and Ambrosia when you encounter him. Continue to engage in dialogue, and demonstrate your skills in combat.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Here are some frequently asked questions about romancing Thanatos, to further guide you on your journey:

1. How do I trigger Thanatos to appear in my runs?

Thanatos doesn’t show up every run, his appearances are triggered as such: after seeing either Alecto or Tisiphone for the first time, Thanatos has a chance to first be seen after the 3rd chamber of Elysium. Once this occurs, Thanatos has a chance to appear in any area except for the Temple of Styx. His appearance is somewhat random, but it’s more likely if you haven’t seen him in a while.

2. What happens if I lose the competition against Thanatos?

Losing the competition doesn’t negatively impact your relationship, it just means you miss an opportunity to impress him at that moment. Don’t sweat it! There will be other chances.

3. Can I romance other characters while pursuing Thanatos?

Yes! One of the unique aspects of Hades is its open approach to relationships. You can romance Megaera and Dusa alongside Thanatos with no negative consequences. In fact, a special scene can occur when you have relationships with both Thanatos and Megaera, leading to a rather interesting proposition.

4. What is Thanatos’s Keepsake, and what does it do?

Thanatos’s Keepsake is the Pierced Butterfly. When equipped, it increases your damage by 1.5%/2%/2.5% (at rank 1/2/3) for each encounter you complete without taking damage. This rewards skillful play and encourages a careful, calculated approach to combat.

5. Does Thanatos have a specific gift preference?

While the game doesn’t explicitly state any gift preferences, it’s generally assumed that Nectar and Ambrosia are the most effective ways to increase his affinity.

6. Where can I find more Nectar and Ambrosia?

Nectar can be found in various ways throughout the game, including:

Purchasing it from the Wretched Broker in the House of Hades.
Receiving it as a reward from certain encounters.
Obtaining it from Chthonic Contractors.
From the Fated List of Minor Prophecies.

Ambrosia, on the other hand, is more rare. Find it by:

Completing high-heat Pact of Punishment runs.
Purchasing it from the Wretched Broker (but it is quite expensive).
Completing certain Prophecies.
Clearing the Fated List of Minor Prophecies.

7. How many Ambrosia do I need to fully romance Thanatos?

You need a total of four Ambrosia to fully romance Thanatos after gifting him six Nectars.

8. Is there a “wrong” way to respond to Thanatos’s dialogue?

While there’s no definitive “wrong” answer, choosing responses that align with Thanatos’s values – honesty, loyalty, respect for death – will generally be more beneficial. Avoid being overly flippant or dismissive of his feelings.

9. Does heat level affect my ability to romance Thanatos?

The Heat Level from the Pact of Punishment doesn’t directly affect your ability to romance Thanatos. However, completing higher heat runs is necessary to obtain Ambrosia, which is crucial for maxing out his affinity.

10. Can I reverse my decision to be just friends with Thanatos?

No, your choice to be just friends or romance Thanatos is permanent once you’ve had the conversation in Zagreus’s bedroom. So think carefully before deciding!

11. What happens in the romance scene with Thanatos?

Without giving away too many spoilers, the romance scene involves a heartfelt conversation between Zagreus and Thanatos, culminating in a moment of intimacy. It’s a sweet and touching scene that reflects the deep bond they’ve formed. You also have the option to simply remain friends, which is also valid.

12. Can Thanatos die?

As an immortal being, Thanatos cannot truly die. He can be defeated in battle, but he will always return.

13. Does the game acknowledge the polyamorous relationship with Megaera and Thanatos?

Yes! After romancing both Megaera and Thanatos, a unique scene occurs in Zagreus’s bedroom where the trio discusses their feelings and effectively enters a polyamorous relationship, acknowledging that they have reached an understanding.

14. What is Thanatos’s role in the House of Hades?

Thanatos is fiercely loyal to his master Hades. He serves as Hades’ right-hand man, responsible for escorting souls to the underworld. This creates a strong bond between the two characters. He also has a good relationship with Ares, since the god of war doesn’t enjoy bloodshed without death. He is also in love with Macaria, the daughter of Hades and Persephone, but he cannot be with her because of his work.

15. What personality traits are important to Thanatos?

Thanatos values honesty, loyalty, skill, and a deep understanding and respect for the balance of life and death. He appreciates those who are strong, independent, and compassionate. He respects the balance of life and death, and is not a fan of wanton chaos or destruction. He appreciates a character who understands his role and the importance of his work.

By following these tips and answering these questions, you’ll be well on your way to winning the heart of the God of Death in Hades. Remember, patience, persistence, and genuine affection are key. Good luck, and may your journey through the underworld be filled with love and laughter!

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