How to Have a Baby with Elliott in Stardew Valley: A Comprehensive Guide
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The romantic writer Elliott, with his flowing locks and penchant for the dramatic, is a popular choice for marriage in Stardew Valley. For many players, building a family with him is a key goal. So, how exactly do you bring a little bundle of joy into your life with Elliott? The answer is simpler than one might expect, but it requires a bit of dedication and preparation.
You cannot directly “try” for a baby; instead, the game employs a system that offers a random chance for your spouse to ask if you want to have a child. This is the case for both opposite-gender and same-gender couples. If you and Elliott are a same-sex couple, you will adopt; if you are an opposite-gender couple, you will have a biological child. Either way, the process and results are identical.
To trigger the possibility of this question, you need to have:
- A 10-heart relationship with Elliott. This means you must have maximized your friendship with him, having filled all 10 hearts on his relationship meter.
- The nursery added to your farmhouse. This is an upgrade you purchase from Robin at the Carpenter’s Shop.
- The crib must be present in the nursery. The crib comes with the nursery and doesn’t need to be removed.
- You must have been married for at least 7 days.
With these conditions met, there is an approximate 5% chance each night that Elliott will ask if you want to have a child. If you agree, the baby will be born (or adopted) after 14 days and appear in the crib in the nursery.
Preparing for Parenthood with Elliott
Before you even start thinking about babies, you need to win Elliott’s heart and commit to him. This involves a few key steps:
Winning Elliott’s Affection
Elliott is a romantic soul with specific tastes. To build your friendship with him:
- Give Gifts He Loves: Elliott loves Crab Cakes, Duck Feathers, Lobster, and Pomegranate. These are the most effective gifts for building friendship.
- Avoid Hated Gifts: Avoid giving Elliott most foraged items. They will significantly decrease your friendship.
- Talk to Him Daily: Engaging in daily conversations is key to building friendship.
Marriage to Elliott
Once you have reached 10 hearts with Elliott, you can buy a Mermaid’s Pendant from the Old Mariner on the beach during a rainy day (for 5,000 gold). Present this to Elliott to propose marriage. If he accepts, you’ll be married a few days later.
The Farmhouse Upgrade
Before your spouse can even think about asking you about a baby, you’ll need the nursery upgrade. To get the nursery upgrade, head over to Robin’s Carpenter shop and purchase the upgrade from her.
The Arrival of Your Child
After the 14 days have passed, your child will appear in the crib in the nursery. The first child has a random gender, while the second child will be of the opposite gender of the first. You can only have two children.
Raising Your Baby
Your child will progress through several stages. They start as a baby in the crib and will then become a toddler, where they will crawl around and eventually walk. However, they will never grow past the toddler stage. You will interact with them daily and can often engage in dialogues with them, however, you cannot interact with them much beyond this.
FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions About Having a Baby with Elliott
1. Can two boys have a baby in Stardew Valley?
Yes, in Stardew Valley, same-gender couples can have children through adoption. The adoption process and the result (the appearance of a baby in the crib) are identical to having a biological child with an opposite-gender partner.
2. What if I don’t have a 10 heart relationship with Elliott?
You must reach a 10-heart relationship with Elliott to trigger the possibility of being asked about having a child. Below 10 hearts, this event will not occur.
3. Does Elliott help with chores after having children?
After getting married, Elliott will help with farm chores. He may water your crops or feed the animals. However, his level of helpfulness is not significantly impacted after having children.
4. How long does it take for the baby to appear in the crib?
Once you agree to have a child, it will take 14 days for the baby to appear in the crib.
5. What is Elliott’s unique spousal room like?
Elliott’s unique spousal room is added to the right of the farmhouse. It features his writing desk and some of the items that reflect his interests. You will also find his potted plants in the nook outside of the house.
6. Will Elliott ever talk about wanting children before marriage?
While Elliott may show romantic or dreamy behaviors, he doesn’t explicitly discuss having children prior to marriage in the game. The discussion about children only begins after you are married.
7. What happens if I divorce Elliott?
If you divorce Elliott, your children will remain on the farm. However, if you are expecting a child during the divorce, the baby will not be born or delivered. Your ex-spouse will move out of the house, and will often be bitter towards you.
8. Can I have more than two children?
No, you can only have a maximum of two children in Stardew Valley.
9. Is Elliott a good husband in Stardew Valley?
Elliott can be a great husband if you appreciate his romantic nature and the spoiling he tends to do. His dialogue can be a little over-the-top for some players, but his heart is in the right place. He also gives you gifts from time to time.
10. What if I say no to having a child?
If you decline when asked by Elliott if you want to have a child, you will have to wait for another potential proposal. This can happen every night if the requirements are still met. You can say no for as long as you desire, but the option to get children will be there as long as you meet all the requirements.
11. How can I increase the chance of getting the “baby question”?
There’s nothing you can do to increase the 5% chance of being asked. However, make sure you meet all the requirements each night and you will likely be asked sooner rather than later.
12. Does Elliott get jealous if I gift other marriage candidates?
Yes, Elliott can get jealous if you give gifts to other eligible marriage candidates after you are married to him.
13. What does Elliot love as gifts?
As a reminder, Elliot loves Crab Cakes, Duck Feathers, Lobster, and Pomegranate. Make sure to give these if you want to get him to 10 hearts quickly.
14. What is the 10 heart event with Elliott?
Once you reach 10 hearts with Elliott, he will send you a letter, asking you to meet him on the beach on a sunny morning. When you go there, you will join him on the docks and have a romantic scene.
15. What is the easiest way to get Elliott’s friendship up?
Focus on gifting him his loved items, and talk to him every day. He will also accept other gifts, but these are the most effective. Once you are a high heart count, you can give him loved items every few days to get all the way up to 10 hearts.
Having a baby with Elliott in Stardew Valley is a rewarding experience that brings a new dynamic to your farm life. Just focus on building your relationship, upgrading your farmhouse, and being patient, and soon you’ll be a parent!