How to Sleep with Astarion?

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To sleep with Astarion, you need to return to a bedroll and interact with it for a decision where you can choose to go to bed alone or with Astarion, and selecting Astarion will lead to a conversation before a passionate night with him. This romantic encounter is a key part of building a relationship with Astarion in the game, and it requires careful consideration of your dialogue choices and actions throughout the story.

Understanding Astarion’s Romance

Building a Relationship

Building a relationship with Astarion involves supporting his whims, showing support for his condition, aligning with characters typically referred to as monsters, being ruthless, displaying dramatics, presenting displays of power, appreciating fine things, and demonstrating cruelty. It’s also important to ask Astarion about his scars to unlock the scar-reading scene.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Should you sleep with Astarion at the party? – You don’t need to sleep with Astarion at the party to begin romancing him; if you get his approval high enough, he’ll proposition you on his own at some point during Act 1.
2. How to seduce Astarion? – To seduce Astarion, focus on supporting his whims, showing support for his condition, and aligning with characters typically referred to as monsters.
3. Can you sleep with Karlach and Astarion? – The game’s dialogue options suggest that Karlach can’t have slept with Astarion or anyone else, due to the story-breaking implications.
4. Should you let Astarion bite you? – Accepting Astarion’s bite improves your relationship with him, but refusing it only results in a minor setback, with a risk of death associated with the bite.
5. What happens if Astarion feeds on you? – If you let Astarion drink your blood, you’ll wake up with the Bloodless debuff, giving you a -1 on all checks until you long rest again.
6. What happens if you let Astarion turn you into a vampire? – Turning into a vampire enables you to become a vampire, but you’ll be much weaker than Astarion.
7. Can you romance Astarion if you don’t sleep with him? – You don’t need to sleep with Astarion to romance him; if you get his approval high enough, he’ll proposition you on his own.
8. Can Astarion turn you? – Astarion will refuse to turn you into a full vampire, but you can ask him to turn you into a sunlight-immune vampire spawn during your next Long Rest.
9. Can you romance Astarion later in the game? – If Astarion’s approval rating of you is high enough by the time you celebrate at the camp after the Save the Refugees side-quest, you’ll be able to continue your flirtationship with him.
10. How do you know if Astarion likes you? – You can check Astarion’s approval rating of you on the character sheet, aiming to gain high approval before the Rescue Druid Halsin quest.
11. Why is it so hard to romance Astarion? – Romancing Astarion is complex and requires deceit and trickery, involving morally questionable decisions and a push-pull dynamic.
12. Does Astarion tell you he loves you? – Astarion tells you he loves you when offering to make you a vampire, but it’s clear he doesn’t mean it sincerely.
13. Can you romance Astarion and be good? – It’s possible to achieve a good ending with Astarion, but it comes with its own baggage and a troubling relationship.
14. When can you start kissing Astarion? – In Act 2, when arriving at Moonrise Towers, Astarion will approach you with his confession scene, allowing you to start kissing him.
15. How do you get Astarion to confess his feelings? – To trigger Astarion’s romance scene in Act 3, you must have finished his companion quest, which involves taking down his master Cazador.

By understanding Astarion’s romance and following these guidelines, you can successfully sleep with Astarion and build a complex, intriguing relationship with him in the game. Remember to carefully consider your dialogue choices and actions to achieve the desired outcome and unlock the full potential of your relationship with Astarion.