Tying the Knot in Eorzea: Your Guide to FFXIV Marriage

So, you’ve found that special someone in Final Fantasy XIV and you’re ready to take your relationship to the next level – a virtual wedding in the wondrous world of Eorzea! The Eternal Bonding system allows players to formalize their in-game relationships with a beautiful ceremony and some unique perks. But before you start planning the floral arrangements for your reception, let’s break down exactly what you need to do to make your digital dream wedding a reality.

Requirements for Eternal Bonding in FFXIV: Your Checklist for Nuptial Bliss

Getting married in FFXIV isn’t quite as simple as strolling down the aisle (digitally speaking, of course). Here’s a comprehensive list of requirements you and your partner must fulfill:

• Complete the Main Scenario Quest “The Scions of the Seventh Dawn”: This is a crucial step! You can’t even begin the Eternal Bonding questline until you’ve finished this pivotal part of the main story. So, if you haven’t, get adventuring!

• Be on the Same Server: This is a no-brainer, but important to reiterate. You and your beloved need to reside on the same FFXIV server. You can’t marry someone on a different Data Center without transferring one of your characters.

• Be in the Same Party: For certain parts of the quest line, you’ll both need to be in a party together, working towards your matrimonial goals.

• Be Physically Located in the East Shroud: A portion of the quest requires you to be in this area. The quest will guide you specifically.

• Equip a Promise Wristlet: These wristlets are essential! You’ll acquire them as part of the initial Eternal Bonding quests. They represent your commitment to the bond.

• Purchase an Eternal Bonding Plan: This is where the real-world money comes in. There are three tiers: Standard (free), Gold ($10), and Platinum ($20). Each tier offers different options for your ceremony, including attire, decorations, and special features. Keep in mind this price is per person, so your costs will need to be doubled.

• Complete the Eternal Bonding Questline: This involves several quests that must be completed together, leading up to the wedding ceremony itself. This includes, but is not limited to, speaking to specific NPCs and completing duties.

Other Important Considerations

While the above list covers the core requirements, there are a few other things to keep in mind:

• Level Requirement: While not explicitly stated in the article snippet provided, traditionally you had to be level 50 to get married. Please consult the current patch notes to ensure you reach the correct level before trying to commence the ceremony.

• Time Commitment: The Eternal Bonding quests and the ceremony itself will take time. Be sure you and your partner have scheduled enough time to devote to the wedding. The ceremony itself requires a maximum of two hours (Earth time) from start to finish.

• Guest Invitations: Depending on the chosen Eternal Bonding plan, you’ll be able to invite a certain number of guests to your ceremony. Be mindful of who you invite and make sure they can attend!

• Ceremony Customization: The Gold and Platinum plans offer a wealth of customization options for your ceremony, allowing you to personalize your special day. Take the time to explore these options and create a wedding that reflects your relationship.

FAQs: Everything You Need to Know About FFXIV Marriages

Still have questions about the Eternal Bonding system? Fear not! Here are 15 frequently asked questions to clear up any confusion:

1. What are the benefits of getting married in FFXIV?

The primary benefit is the eternity ring, which allows you to teleport to your partner for free as long as you’re not in the same instanced area. This can be incredibly useful for coordinating activities and saving Gil on teleportation costs. You can also use the ring to help friends in areas soft-locked by flying or similar hindrances.

2. Can Free Trial players get married?

Unfortunately, no. Free Trial players cannot purchase Eternal Bonds/Weddings. This feature is restricted to players with a full game subscription.

3. What happens if we miss our wedding?

The ceremony will be postponed if both you and your partner are not present at the venue within 20 minutes (Earth time) of the doors opening. Make sure you and your partner are both punctual.

4. How does the ceremony work?

The ceremony proceeds through its stages at a predetermined pace. However, if both you and your partner ring the eternity bell, you can move to the next stage without waiting. After the exchange of rings, the reception will begin, allowing you and your guests to mingle.

5. How much does it cost to get married?

There are three packages: Standard (free), Gold ($10), and Platinum ($20). Keep in mind the $10 and $20 prices will be for each person, so your costs must be doubled. The costs associated can quickly increase, especially for platinum.

6. How long does the ceremony take?

The ceremony requires a maximum of two hours (Earth time) from start to finish. You can enter at any time if the ceremony is still in progress.

7. Does anything happen on my character’s birthday?

Currently, your character’s birthday is primarily for RP purposes. While there were plans for it to have some impact on the game, nothing has been implemented as of yet.

8. Can I marry an NPC?

No, you cannot marry an NPC in FFXIV. You can only marry other players.

9. Can I get divorced?

Yes, FFXIV allows you to get divorced through a process called breaking the Eternal Bond. However, this will cost you money and you will have to start the Eternal Bonding process over again should you decide to remarry.

10. How long does an Eternal Bond last?

The Eternal Bond itself lasts indefinitely, but the in-game buffs and teleportation perks remain active as long as you maintain the bond.

11. Where does the Ceremony of Eternal Bonding take place?

The ceremony takes place at the Ivory Chapel within the Sanctum of the Twelve. There are dressing rooms and a waiting room for guests.

12. Can I marry someone of the same gender?

Absolutely! Gender does not matter when it comes to Eternal Bonding. You can marry any player, regardless of their character’s gender.

13. What items are exchanged during the wedding?

During the ceremony, you and your partner will exchange eternity rings for your promise wristlets. The eternity rings are what provide the teleportation perk.

14. What if my partner and I are on different data centers?

Unfortunately, you cannot marry someone on a different data center without transferring one of your characters. Data center travel doesn’t change the need for you and your partner to exist on the same server.

15. What happens to the wedding venue after the wedding?

After the wedding, the sanctum will still be available to those who are married, but it will be under maintenance for several hours.

Congratulations, Soon-to-be-Wed Warriors of Light!

Getting married in FFXIV is a fun and memorable experience that can enhance your gameplay and strengthen your connection with your partner. By understanding the requirements and planning ahead, you can ensure that your virtual wedding is a truly special occasion. Now go forth, Warriors of Light, and celebrate your love in style! And remember, gaming can be a fantastic tool for learning and building communities. Organizations like the Games Learning Society (GamesLearningSociety.org) are dedicated to exploring the educational and social impact of games. Good luck with planning your eternal bond!